Fertility treatments encompass not only the medical aspect but also personal, psychological, marital, family, social, and professional dimensions. It is important to be aware of and consider these various aspects as you navigate through this journey, as they can impact every area of your life. Each couple approaches this process based on their unique style, worldview, and coping strategies they have developed for themselves. You have created your own "toolbox" for dealing with challenges.
Our fertility unit provides the support of a social worker, a certified marriage and family therapist, who is available to listen, offer guidance, and help you expand your coping skills. Below is a partial list of issues that couples commonly face during fertility treatments. If you find yourself relating to any of these sections or have other concerns, please feel free to contact Gadit Mes, via phone or email, as indicated at the top of the page.
You have the right to individual or couples therapy as part of the services provided by our unit. The application process is personal and direct via the social worker, ensuring confidentiality.
Personal and Mental Process:
- Feeling disappointed by the body's perceived "betrayal." Am I really unable to conceive naturally?
- Invasive procedures and hormonal treatments associated with in vitro fertilization (IVF) can have physical and mental effects, causing uncertainty and anxiety.
Couple Process:
- Experiencing guilt and shame, feeling that the other partner is suffering "because of me."
- The male partner may be engrossed in work and less inclined to share with others.
- The female partner may require more support, struggle with denial, and experience guilt even if the identified problem is her partner's.
- Loss of spontaneity in the relationship due to the focus on fertility treatments.
Family Process:
- Family members may focus more on the couple's ability to conceive rather than on their emotional well-being.
- Deciding how much to share with family and friends and what to keep within the intimate bond of the couple.
- Contemplating whether to keep the fertility treatments a secret.
Social Process:
- Feeling disconnected from friends who are already pregnant while you are still trying.
- Considering whether to share your fertility journey with friends and how much to disclose.
Professional Process:
- Deciding whether to disclose the situation in the workplace.
- Contemplating a career change due to the demands of fertility treatments.
- Evaluating whether it is the right time to pursue further education or delay it.
Remember, these are just some of the challenges couples may face during fertility treatments. By addressing these issues and seeking support, we aim to help you navigate through this journey with greater ease and contribute to your overall well-being and success in the treatment.